The Quentin Hafner Podcast

How to be the Leader of Your Marriage

Quentin Hafner

For many men, the idea of “leading” in marriage feels heavy... or even wrong. Culture has told us it’s controlling, and deep down you may wonder: Why is this on me? Why do I have to change when she’s the one who seems more unhappy or disconnected?

That frustration is valid. Especially if you’ve spent years walking on eggshells, trying harder, but still ending up stuck in the same cycle.

What most men miss is that, when there’s no clear leadership, marriages quietly unravel. Respect fades, intimacy dries up, and the relationship feels more like roommates than partners.

In this solo episode, I break down why leadership in marriage matters more than you think, and how avoiding it may be the very thing keeping you stuck.


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